Five Ways to Dwell in the Land and Do Good.

“Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.” Psalms 37:3

This verse is brilliant because that’s where we’re at. Because dwelling in the land and doing good is available to all of us.

Most of us did not set out to become single parents. It’s a long, lonely road. However, it has several limitations.

I’ve spent some time justifying my lack of progress or success.

My life is complicated, but the truth is, there were things to do and actions I could have taken, but I didn’t because I was so busy focusing on how the world “had done me wrong.”

It’s easy to do.

A lot of us are in this mess because somebody screwed up. And they left us holding the bag, a big bag full of difficult circumstances.

We’re not only dealing with anger; we are also dealing with genuine, painful circumstances.

Things like hurting kids, decreased finances, loneliness, and a massive blow to our self-esteem.

These things greet us every morning and accompany us to sleep at night.

And I think this is where we stay if we are not careful.

This verse limits our excuses. Even amid challenging circumstances, we can hold our ground and do good.

And trust God with the outcome.

Trust God.

If he has left you in this land, he has a plan.

There is still hope and victory.

We may need a dose of hope, but we can make it.

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We may need to adjust our perspective and techniques, but we can be assured that God has a plan and a purpose.

Survey the land you’re in.

Honesty is the only place to start. The truth may hurt. However, acknowledging exactly where we are is a necessary step.

Your land may face financial limitations, complex living circumstances, and relational challenges.

Some messes are immense and overwhelming. But admitting it doesn’t cause it. The problem is already there.

It simply provides a starting point.

Identify the ways you have put off “dwelling in the land.”

I admit it. I would love not to dwell on certain aspects of my life. I’ve procrastinated on and ignored things.

Dwelling in the land means conquering the land you live on.

Out west, ranching is a way of life. The land is fenced for cattle and has clearly defined boundaries. To succeed, this plot of land must be conquered and prepared for ranching.

The rancher tackles problems on their ranch by working hard and overseeing the land. This alone brings success.

The rancher identifies the problem and addresses it.

Ignoring it and not making a plan brings failure.

Where do we need to do good?

A rancher may need to plow the east pasture, fix the back fence, and clean out the barn. They have a specific list.

Examining specific situations, we can fine-tune our plan to dwell in the land and do good.

I may need to acknowledge that my relationship with the tall boy has been a little tense and could use some more humor.

The finances may need an overhaul. The house needs a thorough cleaning.

And this bitter heart may need time to pursue peace and forgiveness.

Understand that these actions and commitments will bring you safety and success.

Many versions of this verse talk about being fed (having enough) and dwelling in a safe pasture.

As single moms, I think it’s essential for us to spend time thinking about this.

Our safety and physical needs are met when we dwell in the land and do good.

Our commitment to doing the right thing where we are will ultimately bring good rewards.

We may not see it immediately, but success will come. Our relationships, needs, and lives will be rewarded with the good that only God can provide. He wants us to work closely with him.

Take some time today to review these verses and chapters. It will bring hope and encouragement.

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2037&version=KJV

As a special time of worship and renewal, please consider listening to the hymns by The Piano Guys.